Bitz 'N' Blogs with CJ Cross

Hi! My name is Ceej. I like to write stuff!

  • And Now We Can Begin..

    Greetings and salutations from my new Mac Neo, Indigo. She’s fast, she’s reliable and I don’t have to wait for up to an hour for Word Press to load so I can write my weekly blog.

    Before I begin this weeks blog, I’d like to give a huge shout out to my Husband who saved the money so I could go laptop shopping. Thanks hon!

    This week I took the week off work.

    I didn’t have anything planned. It was just the way things worked out- with Monday being the Kings Birthday long weekend and I already had the Friday off for a medical appointment. So, it just made sense to take the Wednesday off and take the week in full .

    Here is a snapshot of my week off

    • I got a new drivers licence photo
    • I caught up with my Father for lunch
    • I went and got a CT scan for the issues I’m having with the right hand side of my face
    • I made a follow up Doctors appointment
    • Hubby and I were able to do the weekly shop together
    • I went laptop shopping and spent and afternoon setting up indigo
    • I got a visit from my friend Jo
    • I inherited some interesting massage tools and wheat bags from a neighbour
    • Hubby and I went to a local wine tasting and caught up with a friend
    • I developed a taste for Pink Gin
    • Hubby and I watched the Peaky Blinders movie ‘The Immortal Man’ & finished watching all of ‘Good Omens”
    • I had serious thoughts about potentially joining a gym (The jury is still out on this one)
    • I may potentially invest in a hiking pole (The jury is still out on this as well)
    • I am – and probably always will be – curious about the benefits of using a muscle relaxant specifically designed for dogs and horses, on human beings. (IYKYK)
    • I got a package delivered and ordered some microwave safe dinner plates

    So yes, a quiet but enjoyable week off. Tomorrow its back to it (Ugh) but, as they say, these bills won’t pay themselves.

    Today, I have a support worker to assist me for two hours. Just to give Hubby a bit of a break. Speaking of which, he’s just gone out to get us some breakfast before my Support Worker arrives for her shift and it is on that note, I must end this blog.

    Until next week!

    Ceej

  • Feeling Lost …

    You know, I’m not sure why I’m writing this blog. Is it because I need something to do with my time? Is it because I feel I have something to say? Perhaps a bit of both?

    Today, in my state is the King’s Birthday holiday. I’d normally be working today but, given that, that’s not happening today.. Here I am.

    Currently, we are 8 days into June. For a large majority of Australia – this means it’s winter. For other places like The Northern Territory and a large majority of Queensland, it means you freeze your bits off in the morning but once the frost in your fingertips thaws out – you’re out living your best life while getting the type of suntan that most of you never asked for.

    Observations about the weather aside, I think I am writing this blog because I feel lost.

    Not lost like I don’t know where I am.. more like I just don’t know what I’m going to do next.

    Over the last seven years, I have been up to my neck (and occasionally in up over my head) in the world of Outlander. The books, the TV show, the fandom experience – both positive and negative – online and that one time for the one time where there was an Australian Outlander convention held where I was fortunate enough to meet some online friends in real life.

    I promised myself that when Outlander ended – it’d be my last foray into the fandom space. That I’d hand in my fangirl card, hang up my fandom hat and walk away knowing that I at least got the opportunity to share an experience unlike any I’d ever experienced before and be happy with that.

    And honestly? Despite everything? I think I am.

    What I’m left with now is … what do I do with my life from here?

    Next year I turn 50 (and in accordance with my family history I start my journey into the world of Perimenopause and beyond) and so far they only thing I’ve learnt is that after 50 a woman starts losing muscle mass so exercise is key.

    At present, I am debating whether I am able to join a gym. I have already lost 16.1Kgs in the last year and a half and my upper body strength is already pretty good, but, my lower body, in particular my legs, definitely need some work.

    I’m looking at continuing my blog and my writing. While I promise to update as much as I can.. I am currently in the process of looking to buy a new Mac. My current one almost 10 years old and while it’s still hanging in there, it doesn’t quite have the speeds I’m after anymore. I’m currently looking at upgrading my desktop and will hopefully have a new Mac by September this year. Will keep you updated on my progress.

    In the meantime, I beg you to bare with me as most of the time it takes more than 20 minutes for my current machine to do/load anything and more often than not by the time it’s done loading, I simply cannot be bothered anymore and have moved on to something else.

    I would really love to meet new people but the truth is, given that I’ve been a shut in for so long, I’ve not the foggiest idea on how to people anymore and the mere thought of peopling again kind of overwhelms me.

    My only constant companions are my Husband, my Father and my Support Workers and even then the time I spend with them is limited due to how our lives are. I do have my kittens but by and large they either see me as a snack source or a comfy place on which to sleep.

    So yes. I am feeling a little lost a present. Not really sure which direction I’m going to go in.

    I guess I’ll take it one step at a time and see where I end up

    Thanks for reading

    Ceej

  • The End … Of May.

    And, we’ve made it to the end of May.

    It’s been a hell of a ride.

    We’ve had a month of birthdays, anniversaries, allergic reactions, dental appointments, vet visits, specialist appointments and technical devices being given their last rights before being sent to God.

    We’ve had freezing cold nights, the inability to sleep, vividly weird dreams and kittens wanting to snuggle under the covers at all hours of the morning

    We’ve gotten down to a size 14-16 while still weighing in at around 99.5kgs (219 lbs or15 stone)

    It’s been a hectic, chaotic, month .. and I, for one, are glad it’s over.

    Bring on June and the final stretch of 2026 .

    Ceej

  • It’s Gonna Be May …..

    May.

    I, in equal parts love and loathe the month of May.

    I love May because here, in Australia you can see an obvious change in the seasons. It means the Summer / Autumn wardrobe can be put away and the Winter wardrobe gets dusted off and ready to go. It means scarves. It means beanies. It means the warmer blankets can finally be put on the bed .. Just in case.

    If you’re into star signs, May is the month of Taurus. ( Technically Taurus is April 20th – May 20th) Everyone has this mini celebration because Taurus tend to announce themselves in much the same way Will Smith did in his portrayal of Muhammad Ali. We walk into a room yelling “The Champ is here!” and expect everyone to acknowledge it accordingly, before ( Unlike Will Smith) demanding a huge plate of food on which we can graze and a nice comfy spot where we can sleep thus allowing everyone to get on with their day.

    I love the month of May because :

    • It’s my Birthday
    • My Husband’s Birthday
    • My Cousins Birthday
    • My Sister’s Birthday
    • My Mother’s Birthday
    • Mothers Day

    I also have the exact same birthday as two of my dearest friends (respective birthday twins) and I share a birthday with the man, the myth, the living legend himself- David Attenborough who, as we all know, turned 100 years old recently.

    With all that goodness going on.. why then do I loathe it?

    I loathe it because I am ardently opposed to colder weather. In particular cold mornings.

    I loathe it because it always appears to be the month there is no money left- despite Hubby and I swearing black and blue we’ve not spent any.

    I loathe it because despite every astrologer stating “Taurus – this year is your year” it never bloody is .. and it pissed me off ( First world problems and all. Despite my best efforts, I’ve still not won the lotto)

    And honestly, I just find the month of May exhausting.

    We’re already 10 days in and I feel like I could sleep for a million years.

    I think I need a nap

    Wake me up when it’s over will you ?

    Thanks for reading

    Ceej

  • The One Where Everything Happened

    OK….

    Today’s blog is just going to have a bit of everything

    To begin

    Last week I wrote a very short, very abrupt blog on the subject of spoilers. It wasn’t very long. Not very well thought out and was written mainly out of frustration and annoyance over the fact that human beings still refuse to take responsibility or (accountability for that matter) in regard to avoiding what they see online about a certain TV show that’s on air at the moment. it is something I feel I will need to do a deep dive into at a later stage – but now is not the time.

    Last Friday began as any other. My support worker, Miss C arrived for her shift with me at exactly 6.30am. Her shift was meant to be from 6.30am- 9.30am.

    It started out normal enough. She helped me shower, dress, help with breakfast and other light duties that needed to be done around the house.

    I wasn’t really feeling great that morning so, I decided to just take it easy and relax before work. My Husband had already left for work at 7am so it was just Miss C and I and, as we were talking about our respective childhoods, we were going over my many, many photos I had of me as a child ( Which my Father gave to me around the time of my 21st Birthday) at which point I sneezed.

    For as long as I can remember, I’ve always gotten nose bleeds. As I child I’d go to bed and in the morning I’d wake up with my pillow and one side of my face stained with blood. As an adult, I’d get them mostly during the Summer – which made perfect sense if you think about it. Australian Summers are notoriously hot, so it would stand to reason I’d get the odd one or two. More recently however, nose bleeds started happening if I scratched my nose or blew it. Given that they were only small bleeds, I never thought anything of them and handled them accordingly ( pinch the nose, cold ice-pack on neck, sit leaning forward etc) and this one started out as no exception.

    Five minutes in, I knew this one was going to be a big one and so I asked Miss C to grab some extra cloths and the large ice bag from the freezer in the kitchen.

    After 15 minutes it wasn’t stopping and the excess was running down my throat or I was coughing it up in large chunks into an endless supply of tissues.

    We called my support workers manager- who had experience as a nurse and after a few quickfire questions, we were given the Nurse on Call service number to ring.

    At this point, my nose bleed had gone rouge and I started to wonder whether I should go to hospital. For a brief moment, I considered it .. but Miss C had borrowed her uncles car that day and so I decided against it. I called Hubby and told him to come home.

    He arrived home about 10 minutes later and decided it was time for me to go to Emergency.

    By now my nose bleed had been going on for about an hour – with no signs of stopping. Thankfully, we live just around the corner from Maroondah Hospital so it did not take long for us to get there.

    We arrived and went straight to the emergency room and up to the triage nurse. I was taken to a room about 5 mins later.

    We were at Maroondah for around 3.5 hours and the end result ended up with me having my nose cauterised in two places.

    I came home tired, sore and completely worn out. Was advised to take it easy for around a week.

    Saturday was my Community Access day and the only thing I had the energy for was my appointment at 10am for the Optometrist. Miss M accompanied me that morning. I had been getting pains behind my left eye for about a month and decided I’d best get it checked out.

    The outcome? The surface of my left eye was dry and so eye drops were prescribed to take care of it.

    I don’t need to go back for a year. Which is good.

    On the work front – This week every department was getting snowed under. This was mainly due to a restructuring of the inner workings of things and the real outcome of that particular decision won’t be known for at least six weeks.

    In the meantime, we’re all hands on deck and doing our best to stay on top of things.

    My favourite show of all time dropped the ball and is now preparing to jump the shark as far as the story goes. IYKYK

    With two episodes left to go before it ends forever, I am bitterly, bitterly disappointed with how the final season is choosing to play out. ( This will become a blog at some point after the series ends.)

    And finally, this weekend saw Hubby and I celebrate 29 years together as us. It’s kinda hard to believe that two kids in their 20’s who decided it might be fun to kick around a bit for a few months – ended up still being together after almost 30 years.

    This year also sees us celebrate our 20th Wedding anniversary in September. How time flies when you’re having fun.

    Thanks for reading,

    Ceej

  • Let’s Talk Spoilers

    OK…. So this weeks blog is going to be short and sweet because honestly, after spending 3.5 hours in the ER on Friday due to a medical emergency which I’m still recovering from, I’m kinda tired and not one for long, lengthy explanations today.

    For contet – the definition of spoiler I’m talking about today is this one:

      Noun

    spoiler is information about the plot of a TV series, film, or book that could spoil the enjoyment of someone who has not yet seen or read it.

    Do we understand? Good.

    *Deep Breath* You ready? Here we go …

    Since the invention of the internet, Human Beings have developed a love /hate relationship with spoilers.

    If you love them… Great! Good for you! If having a thing completely spoiled before you view it is your jam.. Love that for you!

    If you don’t… Look , I get it… It sucks and how you feel about it is valid.

    That said, you need to realise that it’s the year 2026 and nobody has the time to give a damn about how you feel. Valid though your position is, you’re just gonna come across as a whiney ass bitch to everyone. Sorry.

    So, to avoid that, It’s probably best to simply mute, unfollow, block, remove, untag, everything until you’ve seen the thing OR if you can’t do that – don’t go online till after you’ve watched the thing.

    BUT WHY SHOULD I? I hear you cry. EVERYONE SHOULD JUST ACCOMMODATE ME AND NOT POST SPOILERS! IT”S NOT THAT HARD IS IT, HMMM?

    I know it’s hard. I know it sucks. But (Gently takes both your hands and looks you dead in the eye) take accountability yourself. You’re an adult and you can do that. OK? Excellent!

    The onus is on the individual to avoid spoilers … Not the group at large.

    Ceej

  • And…..I’m back…

    I’m doing OK.

    Easter was good

    The weather was nice

    A lot got accomplished

    My workplace had to do some restructuring. Come Monday I have a new Team Manager and a new team of people to work with.

    My uterus hates me.

    My Kittens are fine

    This blog is just to ensure I keep up with my writing.

    How are you? Are you OK for you?

    I hope so

    Ceej

  • A Quick Update

    Greetings and salutations!

    The only reason this blog exists is because I am trying to keep a regular routine with blogging. (Yeah, that’s a weird sentence, I know)

    Not really feeling great today.

    Will come back next week with a proper entry. I promise.

    Ceej

  • Life Update: The One Where Kittens Got Sick

    First, I want to start off by saying – there was no RAPTOR overnight and I am bitterly disappointed. After all the fuss and carry on over on Threads, I had expected to see dozens of them roaming the streets, leaving chaos, a myriad of burning buildings and dinosaur shit in their wake but, it turns out, like most of the posts on Threads, it was just some dude who made a typo and made a whole thing out of nothing.

    Second, the world lost Chuck Norris. Rumour has it Death barely survived the ordeal. Witnesses say that Death has been left shaken by the experience and will be spending the next 8 weeks at a spiritual retreat in order to recover physically, mentally and emotionally from his injuries.

    In fact, the aftershocks of Chuck Norris passing were so huge, no seismograph on the planet could measure them. In fact, they were so big, they managed to take out Nicholas Brendon ( Xander from Buffy the Vampire Slayer) in his sleep shortly thereafter.

    May they both Rest In Peace. As a Gen X kid, I will miss them very much indeed.

    Now, to the reason for this blog. KITTENS.

    Last week, you may recall that our baby girl Miss Floof became ill with some sort of gastrointestinal issue.

    If you’ve not read it and wish to catch up.. You can do so here: https://domainsaredumb.blog/2026/03/15/the-week-that-was-all-about-the-floof/

    This week saw our boy kitten Jetson end up with the same thing. He seemed to have a worse time of it, with him not only being off his food entirely but he also experienced diarrhea and vomiting which meant Hubby had to clean up several messes off the carpet and the furniture ( I did try my best but sadly I do not have the stomach for cat vomit) which was not fun, I can assure you.

    Jetson was also taken to the vet a few times. He was given an anti -nausea medication and we were told to keep an eye on him. The vet checked him over and despite being ill, he was a healthy weight, not dehydrated and didn’t seem in any form of major discomfort.

    At time of writing this blog, neither our vet or ourselves have no answer as to what could have made both our kittens so ill in such a short period of time. We have been racking our brains for days and so far, we’ve come up with nothing.

    They are both senior cats (Miss Floof will turn 11 this year and Mr Jetson will turn 12) and both, it seems have a particularly sensitive constitution when it comes to food. We don’t tend to give them Human food very often – preferring to give them cat treats as prescribed by our vet.. so again, we are at a loss at the moment as to what made both ill with the same thing.

    It will forever remain a mystery and one, we hope, will never happen again.

    Thanks for reading

    Ceej

  • The Week That Was All About The Floof

    Initially, I had wanted to write a follow up blog from last weeks blog ( Which, if you haven’t yet read – you can do so here : https://domainsaredumb.blog/2026/03/08/farewell-to-outlander-the-one-where-i-hang-up-my-fandom-hat/) where I was to offer an amusing take on the 3 personality types you’ll find in a fandom. I had it all planned out, giggling to myself over how funny I thought I was going to be .. .and then Miss Floof got sick and all matter of funny went out the window.

    Tuesday night she seemed fine. She ate her dinner. She had after dinner snacks. She even cuddled with me after Hubby and I went to bed.

    By Wednesday morning however, she was not her usual happy self. She turned up her nose at her breakfast and refused to eat any of favourite snacks. She was hiding under the bed, refusing to come out. Which was not like her at all.

    For those of you who know my kitten, you know that she suffers from a rather large case of F.O.M.O-Floof Of Missing Out meaning that, she must be the centre of the Universe at all times.

    It is Miss Floof’s world and we are simply living in it. People have attempted to ignore this over the years ( Yes! They have indeed tempted fate) and found themselves at the receiving end of a rather extensive telling off!

    Anyway, as I was saying, by Wednesday morning she seemed off her food. She turned her nose up at her breakfast. Refused to eat.

    By lunchtime she’d not eaten a thing so we did what any concerned pet owners would do and called our vet.

    They were fully booked that day and couldn’t fit her in so they gave us the telephone number for another vet located in Boronia.

    Hubby came home from work and took her to her appointment at 2:30pm that afternoon. They said that nothing was immediately wrong however, they felt she may have an obstruction in her lower intestine, which they thought may require surgery.

    Hubby called our vet and booked her in for 8.40am Thursday morning.

    My support worker, Miss C and I took her to the vet that moring (Hubby had to return to work) and waited while our vet checked her over.

    Overall, her ears, teeth and gums were healthy and no lumps, bumps or blockages were detected. Miss Floof was brave throughout the whole ordeal especially when she needed to be given a laxative from behind.

    The vet tried to get her to relieve herself in the litter tray they provided but it was to no avail and my poor baby began showing signs of severe stress as she was panting and drooling everywhere.

    Eventually, we put her back in her carrier. As soon as we did so, she managed to complete the assigned task and everyone was relieved.

    After the vet cleaned her up, we took Miss Floof home.

    Hubby and I have been monitoring her over the last few days, ensuring she’s eating ( little bits at a time but still) . We’ve swapped out her bowl for one that’s slightly more ergonomic and replaced her water bowl with a larger one to see if that helps her any.

    She seems to be OK at the moment. She’s eaten kitten snacks and has had a little bit of roast chicken as a treat . She’s using the tray just fine and so far there appears to be no further issues.

    She is our beautiful girl. We love her dearly. These last few days have been rather stressful to say the least.

    But she is home. She has had snuggles. For now she is sound asleep by Hubbys computer desk.

    She’s happy

    And that’s just the way we like it

    Ceej